Absent mothers and wives

With 300,000 foreign domestic workers in Hong Kong, it means there are also over 300,000 absent mothers and wives in The philippines, Indonesia and other workers' origins.

The poem on the right was written by Jacqueline P. Formento, a foreign domestic worker in Hong Kong, at courtesy of HelperChoice Hong Kong, about her feelings of being away from her kids.


  • Remembrance
  • Jacqueline P. Formento
  • Do you remember these hands
  • That used to push your cradle
  • While the whistling wind on a stormy night
  • Created the background
  • To a vast ominous darkness?
  • Do you remember the smell
  • Of home-cooked meal clung to my skin,
  • The tangy smoke of firewood
  • That often left my eyes crying?
  • Do you remember the soft lullabies
  • When we watched the fireflies outside our window.
  • While the starts danced merrily
  • To the gentle wind from the ocean?
  • But I know you will not remember
  • The last time I held you in my arms,
  • When I kissed your eyes while you were sleeping.
  • I know that you did not even notice how
  • I stealthily left our house
  • In the cloak of dawn.
  • I did not look back, but the tears kept falling.
  • The emotions almost choked me
  • To unconsciousness.
  • That was a long time ago.
  • Now I’m coming back,
  • I fear your wrath.
  • I fear the accusations in your eyes,
  • The silent metallic anger when I left you.
  • Unleash it my child.
  • I’m home.
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